Dating Violence

Definition: Dating violence refers to a pattern of abusive behavior within a romantic relationship, where one partner seeks to exert power and control over the other through physical, sexual, emotional, or verbal abuse.

 

Forms of Abuse: Students should understand that dating violence can manifest in various forms, including physical abuse (hitting, slapping, pushing), sexual abuse (unwanted sexual contact or pressure), emotional abuse (insults, threats, humiliation), and controlling behaviors (isolating the partner, monitoring activities, controlling communication).

 

Warning Signs: It is important for students to recognize the warning signs of potential dating violence. These may include extreme jealousy or possessiveness, explosive anger or mood swings, isolation from friends and family, excessive control over activities, constant criticism, or physical aggression.

 

Consent and Boundaries: Learn about the importance of consent, mutual respect, and communication in relationships. Consent is necessary for any sexual activity, and both partners have the right to set and respect personal boundaries.

 

Healthy Relationships: Characteristics of healthy relationships can be open communication, mutual respect, trust, support, and equality. Seek relationships that are based on these positive qualities.

 

Reporting and Seeking Help: It is important to report incidents of dating violence and seeking help. Provide information on trusted adults within the school, counselors, or resources available in the community, such as helplines or local support organizations like the Student Advocates.

 

Digital Dating Abuse: With the prevalence of technology and social media, be aware of digital dating abuse. This includes using technology to control, harass, stalk, or threaten a partner. Learn the importance of privacy settings, responsible online behavior, and the need to report any instances of digital dating abuse.

 

Bystander Intervention: Be active bystanders and intervene when you witness signs of dating violence. Learn strategies to safely intervene, such as seeking help from a trusted adult, supporting the person experiencing abuse, or confronting the abusive behavior if it is safe to do so.

 

Resources: We have local and national resources for support, such as hotlines, counseling services, and organizations specializing in dating violence prevention and intervention.